Wellness Tip for Peace: The key is to share the power, and share the leadership in order for them to cooperate. Practice responsible democracy where people will own the idea to resolve conflict and to fulfill the duties that goes along with it.

Ask them what they want and show them how to get it. Listen first, to know their personalities. Let them speak and open up their minds. Your responsibility is to settle the conflict and not to assess or judge them as opponent. Take the person as pure innocent human ready to make peace. In the process of negotiating, be sincere and real to your thoughts. Relay the consequences if any, of what they demand from you. But, present the problem as an opportunity. Because it will only be a problem, if there is a solution. If you have an idea on how to solve the problem, let the pesron own your idea by asking him/her questions on what he/she wants until he/she finds your idea his/her idea. Once you convince him/her to own the idea as his/her, congaratulations, welcome to the first step of your peace negotiation. And the rest are skills to be harnessed. Read more as I give you the Wellness Tips for Peace Leadesrhip here or through the other site Peace Vigil 2012 @ www.sailingforpeaceworldwidepeacevigil.blogspot.com