Wellness Tip for Peace: If there are particular types of people that irritate you, do not compromise your temper just to please them. If they need you, lead them and let them follow you but do not let them lead you because you will have the hard time following them

Remember in the most unbearable situations, there are only three things to do, either, you adapt, you migrate or you die. Adaptation is acceptance of the whole situation and acceptance of your capacity including your strength and weaknesses as your means to handle it. We can only adapt to the situation peacefully if we are convince deep down in our heart that we can live with our decision to adapt. But, if we are doing adapting due to the demands of others without our own personal decision and conviction, then we become unhappy, thus we are not peaceful. When we are at peace with our decision, we are at our best even in the most unbearable situation. So, before adapting to the situation, discern thoroughly if you can be productive with it. If not, you can always migrate to a new location where you can be the best of yourself without the need to compromise your virtues and principles. If, however, this is not possible also due to your limitation, we can take the last option. It is death, not meant to kill or to end life, but death to your own personal, material and emotional attachments without the need to bother other people. Detachment thoroughly and trust that nature will take care of you because you did something good. You did not kill life but you just detach to all that made your life miserable. Then, you start fresh and new. Do not worry, because you take care of life, good karma will come back. People and new friends will also take care of you until you become ready to compete with life once more.