Wellness Tip for Peace: All war is based on deception; while Peace is based on truthfulness. Be Real. When you are near, be near. Be present and start the dialogue.

Do not bait the enemy and lure him to come. Be real. Be sincere. Open yourself and be willing to reconcile truthfully. Because your intention is not to waged war, but to make peace, that is why you exist at the moment when the person already opened themselves to reconcile. Do not have hidden agenda, if you are really true to your commitment to reconcile. Otherwise, if you cannot be loyal to your commitment to reconcile, do not engage in a dialogue yet. Cool your head, balance your thoughts, and convince yourself why you need to do this. Peace making is not a sacrifice, but a smart alternative to survive and co-exist in the small planet. Peace making is the sharing of space legally and ethically. If there are issues that were not settled in the initial phase of negotiation, do not lose hope, because it is a process. When you choose peace, there is no short cut. It can really be very taxing and emotionally draining, when you are not into it yet. So take time to talk to yourself first, make peace to all your conflicts on why you need to reconcile before you proceed and talk to others aside from yourself. Remember, actions speaks louder than words, and you cannot fake your sincerity, for it will always reflect on the output of your peace negotiation.