Wellness Tip for Peace: Be particular, be very "particular" because that is the sign of professionalism. Recall your unprofessionalism in your life and use it to understand the people around you. But now that you are a professional, you have the standards already on the kind of people you can work with. Maintain your standards and do not give in to emotional blackmail.

If there are people who did not pass your standards but is begging you or harrassing you, don't get angry and do not fall into their emotional strategies. Keep your standards and refer them to to those you think are qualified enough to handle them. As you maintain your standards, you get a certain amount of power and control to yourself. Now with power comes certain amount of responsibilities. One of your responsibility is to widen your contacts and improve your networks. So look for more people who will fit-in to your network, so by the time that people ask for your help, you can always refer them them to people you know who can help them