I
find that if I can start packing a day or two ahead, I’m much calmer. I
feel confident that I’ve covered all the bases. I make a checklist of
important items, including a travel kit. I also arrange to leave extra
time in my work schedule before I depart and when I return.
Create a Travel Kit
When traveling, plan to pack a few extra items to make yourself extra comfortable. I suggest you develop a kit filled with
essential travel gear
to have ready to grab at anytime for those unexpected trips that can
arise. Here are my tried and true goodies for plane travel:
- Eye shade
- Ear plugs
- Travel pillows and/or neck support
- Big bottle of water
- Protein snacks like nuts, seeds, or cheese, along with fruits and veggies
- CD player with comforting music
Additionally,
I ask for a blanket once I'm onboard the plane because I am sensitive
to the varying temperatures. I also dress in layers and bring a scarf.
Consider Creature Comforts
Be sure to give yourself permission to bring along what you need to feel deeply contented once you arrive.
I do work to balance this with weight considerations; heavy
suitcases are a form of stress I choose to live without. The key here is
to experiment with what best supports you and then allow yourself the
gift of bringing it along.
Along with my plane kit, I bring Epsom
salts for baths or foot soaks. Also, I bring essential oils such as
lavender, which I use in my baths or directly on my feet (a trick I
learned from a fellow coach for a great night's sleep).
One of my
clients allows herself a pair of lightweight sweat pants; she needs
them to unwind in a hotel room at the end of the day. She also permits
herself to ship home travel purchases so that she can feel comfortable
filling up her suitcase with "Linda things." For long term stays she
goes the extra mile and cleans her hotel room thoroughly and gives
herself permission to buy items that will support her stay, like a
humidifier for dry hotel air.
Sleep Well
For many Sensitive
Souls, one of the greatest travel challenges is getting adequate rest.
Many aspects of traveling can make sleep difficult, such as unusual
textures, noise and light, and the vibrations in large hotels, not to
mention the excitement of being in a new place and wanting to see it
all. Here are a few thoughts:
- Get a good night's sleep before you leave.
As
mentioned, I pack ahead of time so I'm not running around at the last
minute fretting over details that get my mind racing and prevent sleep. I
also go to bed early if I have an early departure.
- Consider staying at a bed & breakfast or small hotel.
The
ambient building vibration is significantly less or non-existent, and
the comforts of a more home-like environment are immeasurable. Staying
with a friend or family member offers similar benefits but may have
other drawbacks!
- Bring your own bedding.
It may sound over the top, but I find that when I bring my own quilt, I can get a great night's sleep in a new place.
- Take naps and plan a realistic schedule.
When
I overbook, it's hard for me to sleep. When I plan to rest midday, I
sleep better later and I am able to fully appreciate my travels. I also
strive to be realistic in what activities I undertake.
Eat and Drink Well
Plan
to eat well and drink plenty of water. While traveling, I make sure to
have water and protein snacks available for excursions. I try to drink
plenty of water, especially if I’m consuming alcohol, caffeine, or sweet
beverages. I find that those keep me awake and water helps to balance
their effects. Also: The more water I drink, the better I feel.
Give Yourself a Chance to Fully Come Home
When
you come home, give yourself a chance to settle in. Unpacking and
putting away your travel items is a way of re-grounding and settling
back into your home. I find that the amount of time I need is directly
proportional to the length of time I've been away. For example: After my
last 5-day trip, I needed about one day to unwind and fully arrive
home. I gave myself permission to spend my first morning back just
tidying the house, going through mail, and watering plants, which I find
centering. It allowed me to re-enter my routine with a fresh outlook
and clear heart.
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